Today a friend taught me about the value of cross cultural friendships... the work invovled in growing in understanding and respect... the ever present reality of blind spots... and the gift of humility that only comes through listening again and again.

We only grow beyound our own comfort zones when we are willing to step out of those comfort zones. There is a very great gift in friendship -- a trust large enough to see and forgive one's short comings without giving into to them.