Jude and I usually take Wed. night out together. We had a great meal over at a restaurant... bought some of the best chocolates I have ever had to share share for Valentine's day... and then rented the movie, Monsoon Wedding Wow what a movie... It is a great window into one slice of India's culture. It also raises the question of what does it mean to have, value, and protect intimacy and family. It has multiple stories within stories... a good window into the struggle to find intimacy and build trust ... as well as the struggle that comes from trust being violated. I would highly recomend this movie.